Different Ideas #2
By Amy Allen

In my last article we talked about some ideas to spice up your sex life. Maybe having sex in the outdoors was a fantasy for you. Today we talk about a few more scenarios which will make her weak at the knees in no time at all.

More scenarios:

1.   This time it's time to incorporate some props into the scene, yes that’s right sex toys.  Now, not everyone is keen on the idea, which is understandable- it does take some women some time to get used to them so be patient and don't push them- like anything it's worth the wait!  In this scenario you have to play the part of the mean, big, bad boy- who's been checkin' on her all day long…. Commenting and concentrating on her ass is an easy scenario to adopt- first make a cheeky comment on it and then while kissing her give it a sly pinch while looking her straight in the eye and then wink.  Then bend her over and massage her bottom- if she moves or protests then spank her- and tell we on your terms not hers! 

Then when she seems settled, leave her and grab the toy of your choice- a good one is the bum plug- used for anal insertion.  Also grab your lubrication, begin by massaging it into to bum cheeks and her anal hole, also make you apply loads to the bum plug, slowing begin to penetrate her, an inch at a time.  Once that is in full swing grab a vibrator and begin to pull it in and out of her vagina.  When she becomes really excited replace the vibrator with your mouth……

2.   Bondage has an unfortunate reputation within sex- many think it's way too kinky or dodgy to try.  It isn't and the people who give it a try are really glad they did.  Secretly everyone likes the idea of being free from making the choices during sex-  the one who's tied up is free from responsibility until they holler 'mercy'.  You may choose not to say 'mercy' but may have an equivalent- it's totally up to you whatever you feel comfortable.  How ever if this is going to work you must stick by some rules- it's very important that if you are going to be tied down you must accept literally what is thrown your way- if  they become uncomfortable then they must holler 'mercy' and the proceedings should come to an end. 

In this situation communication is really important- you must let your partner know that at the slightest hint of  discomfort whether it be nervousness or a headache they must holler and that you will honour their wishes.  If bondage is a completely new area and you don't want to scare her completely a good idea is to drop it into conversation- or add a hint into your sex sex life- maybe pin her down during love making?  However, your partner may be a bit wary, so here are some ideas of how to break the tension:

±     Use your hands to restrict your partners, instead of tying them- this will spark off games of it's own.

±     Use cotton or string which is easy to break if your partners nervous- the principles still their but it doesn't seem so scary.

±     Always honour the mercy call

±     Always be prepared to untie your partner if needed

±     Don't invest in all the equipment before you get started- these are more likely to scare you r partner than anything- use objects from around the house that you are both familiar with- this will make you more comfortable.

±     Vary the bondage techniques- don't all ways tie up your partner in the same manner she'll soon get bored…..

3.    Take her back to her childhood- the days when you all ways wanted to go further- but didn't quite dare because her parents were next door and they would all ways over hear!  Think about when you so wanted to get to the next base.  I suggest you purchase her a pair of new panties- white, frilly and lacy are all ways good.  Then leave them in a box with a note saying 'How about a video tomorrow- bring along me xx ps. We can't touch while we're all together'  in a place that you'll know she'll find- a good place is to place them in her car so she'll find them on the way home…..

The next night settle down to a classic movie- preferably a classic from your childhood- casually ask her if she has them on? If so take a peek!  As the movie progresses start to kiss and caress her- slowly work your way down- then teasing her playing with her panties, then finally bury your hand  and get on your knees and kiss through the pants.  Finally massage her through the pants.  When she gets really hot stop- and only begin when she takes of those pants at the end of the movie.…..

4.   The next scenario is all about foreplay.  The idea is to evoke your partners curiosity right from the moment she walks in your door.  As she walks in the door place a wrapped gift box on the mantel piece or on a table.  Look at it briefly to make sure she notices it and then walk away.  Next busy your self  with something- while you are engrossed ask her if she saw the box? Did she touch it it? What does she thinks in it? As you ask her she'll begin to burst with curiosity.  Start off the night of sex like any other- with a bit of gentle kissing and petting. 

Then when things begin to get a bit steamy show your partner your penis- show her how it grows and show her how you liked to be touched by playing with it in front of her.  Then grab some baby oil and smother your penis with it- then smother her body with baby oil as you begin to rub it all over her body, adding the odd slap in!  Now it's time to have fun- use you cock and trusting techniques to tease her to the brink of ecstasy.  Vary your speeds, depths and direction.  When she's crying out for more, withdraw yourself and go and fetch the package- unwrap it and say your willing to have a threesome- with her and the vibrator.  This bit is the hardest bit- try using your head you penis and a vibrator- but I'm sure you'll find something!